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Transform your overthinking into clear, confident decisions — in just 4 weeks.
Welcome to The Co-Pilot
This is the program that helps expats like you stop overthinking and finally move forward - whether it’s about your next career move, where to live, or what kind of life you want to build next.
You’ll learn how to cut through the mental noise, get clear on what truly matters, and take confident action - so you can stop living in your head and start making real progress in your global life, even if you don't know where you will be next year.
Your expat life looks great on the outside. But inside your head? It’s loud, messy, and exhausting. You're quietly trapped in indecision and constant overthinking.
You’ve built something impressive - a solid job, friends across time zones, a life filled with adventure and opportunity. But behind the scenes, it’s a different story.
Maybe your job no longer lights you up. Maybe you’re wondering if this is still the right country for you. Or maybe it’s something deeper: a quiet dissatisfaction you can’t quite name - only that something needs to change.
So you lie awake at night, replaying the same “what ifs”: where to live, what to do next. Each choice feels entangled with ten others. Because as an expat, you know one move ripples into everything - your relationship, your finances, your community, your future. One wrong turn could change it all.
So you overthink. You map scenarios. You wait for certainty that never comes. And all the while, the clock keeps ticking - along with your 3AM thoughts. You put pressure on yourself to figure it out, then feel guilty for not enjoying your “amazing” expat life.
You distract yourself with busywork, scrolling, long runs, or conversations that go in circles. You read the books, ask for advice, make the pro-con lists… but still feel foggy.
You’re not lazy. You’re not ungrateful. You’re just tired.
Tired of carrying the weight of figuring out a life that’s always in motion. Tired of not feeling fully present - because part of you is already somewhere else. And most of all, tired of the quiet anxiety of not knowing what’s next.
You’re done living in three different futures in your head. You want clarity. You want peace. And more than anything - you want to fully enjoy the life you’ve worked so hard to create and make the most of your precious time abroad.
The quiet cost of indecision
When your expat life looks good from the outside but feels stuck underneath, it’s tempting to downplay it. To tell yourself you should just be grateful. But staying in this fog comes at a cost — and it shows up in the little moments.
Maybe you're caught in an exhausting cycle of:
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Lying awake, replaying endless career, location & relationship scenarios in your head
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Trying to make a decision by creating pros and cons lists - that lead to nowhere
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Getting more irritable with your partner or family when they bring up the future
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Talking your options over with friends, yet again, always ending in the same loop
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Avoiding commitments as simple as a trip next season or a 6-month gym membership offer because you don't know if you'll still be here next year
A cycle that is quietly impacting how you are experiencing your expat life. You’re not fully here, because part of you is already trying to live in a future you haven’t chosen yet.
Your biggest asset is holding you back
If you’re like most of my clients, you’ve always relied on your mind to get ahead. I get that - it got you where you are today.
Living a good life and being smart about your future is important to you. So you weigh options carefully. Think it through. Plan thoroughly. You want to be sure before you act - especially when the stakes are high. And honestly? That strategy has worked well for you. Until now.
But here’s the thing: the crossroads you’re at right now can’t be solved with logic alone. You can't think your way to clarity.
Because these decisions - about where to live, what work to pursue, who to build a life with - aren’t just intellectual. They’re emotional, layered, and deeply personal. And trying to “figure it out” in your head - while waiting to be sure before you act - is exactly what’s keeping you stuck.
You’re using only half your clarity system: the part that demands certainty before it moves. Which means… you stay right where you are. Spinning in questions. Waiting for clarity to arrive - instead of learning how to access it.
Imagine you're on a challenging hike...
You’ve been hiking for hours. You hit a fork in the path — no map, no signal, and daylight fading.
Do you freeze there, analyzing every possible outcome? Or do you choose a direction, trust your instincts, and start walking — knowing you can course-correct along the way?
This is where so many expats get stuck. Not because they’re lost - but because they’re waiting for a perfect map before they move. Overthinking every step, afraid to make the “wrong” choice.
But clarity doesn’t come from standing still. It comes from moving with intention.
Welcome to The Inner Clarity System –
Your personal decision-making co-pilot that transforms how you navigate expat life's crossroads.
Here’s the truth: the more you think about it, the more stuck you feel.
Because clarity doesn’t come from analysis alone - it comes from alignment and movement, just like on that trail.
Most decision-making tools keep you in your head: making lists, mapping scenarios, asking everyone for advice. But your life isn’t a spreadsheet - and your biggest decisions deserve more than mental gymnastics.
The Inner Clarity System works differently. It helps you feel your way to decisions that are deeply right for you and take action on them - even if the future is still unfolding. It combines practical tools, intuitive insights, and a decision-making process that taps into both your logic and your gut.
This isn’t about finding the perfect answer - especially in expat life, where certainty is rare.
It’s about building the inner clarity to move forward with confidence, even when not everything is clear yet. No more circling. No more “what if” loops. Just clear, steady, self-led progress.
You may still worry: "What if I make the wrong choice?
That makes sense. When one decision ripples into your career, your relationship, your future — it feels like there’s a right answer, and you just haven’t found it yet.
But here's the reframe: There are no wrong choices, only experiences that guide you. Every decision is a learning opportunity, not a one-way ticket to a fixed destination.
Inside The Co-Pilot, I’ll show you how to use your Inner Clarity System to make decisions that feel as natural as breathing – no matter how layered your expat life becomes.
INTRODUCING...
The Co-Pilot
The Co-Pilot is a transformational program for high-achieving expats who look successful on the outside - but feel quietly stuck on the inside.
If your once-solid career now feels uncertain, or you're questioning where to live, what to pursue, or how to move forward with purpose - this is where you stop spiraling in overthinking and start making clear, authentic decisions you actually want to follow through on.
You don’t need another late-night thinking loop or well-meaning advice from home.
You need a decision-making system that helps you tune in - so your next steps feel grounded, true to you, and right for this season of your global life.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll learn a 4-part Inner Clarity System that gives you exactly that: a practical, repeatable way to find clarity from within, take calm, confident action, and lead your life with direction - even when the future is still unfolding.
A 4-module transformation to get you unstuck — and confidently moving forward
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll go from quietly spinning your wheels to becoming the calm, clear, self-led decision-maker of your global life.
Here’s what you’ll get inside The Co-Pilot:
✅ A step-by-step, 4-part Inner Clarity System
Unlock the power of the 4 core pillars of the Inner Clarity System designed to cut through confusion, helping you make clear choices and feel confident every step of the way. You'll get life-time access to all the videos and extras, plus any upgrades I'm making in the future - because the right decision doesn't need to be rushed.
✅ Perspective-shifting coaching tools
Experience powerful exercises that help you untangle mental clutter, dissolve doubt, and finally see your next steps clearly - without overthinking them at 2am.
✅ BONUS this round: 4 live group coaching calls
Get direct support, laser coaching, and personalized insight from Amanda - so you’re not figuring this out alone and can accelerate. You'll feel seen, heard, and supported in your process, because I know that every situation is unique.
✅ A space built for expats
This program is designed specifically for people navigating international careers, relationships, and big moves - so every part speaks to your world, without you having to explain it.
✅ A group call every quarter for as long as The Co-Pilot runs(!)
No matter when you joined The Co-Pilot, you can participate in a call and ask your burning questions every quarter - because your global life isn't just about this next decision and I want to support you along the way.
Don't just take my word for it - see what other high-achieving expats have said about the work we do inside The Co-Pilot
"I thought the set-up of The Co-Pilot was great. In a few weeks' time, we managed to address several different topics through a variety of exercises.
Through Amanda's guidance and experience, I believe we all had individual moments of clarity regarding our futures, relationships, careers, and so on. I was a big fan of the visualisation exercises, which gave me a set of calmness and energy at the same time!"
Lieselotte Pellens
What we'll do inside The Co-Pilot
Module 01:
Unlock Unshakeable Clarity – Know What Truly Matters in Your Expat Life
✈️ Cut Through the Noise & Reconnect With Your Core
Expat life is full of options - and pressure to make the most of them. But when everything feels possible, it also becomes hard to tell what actually matters to you. This first module helps you filter out the noise, reconnect with your inner compass, and get radically clear on what deserves your energy.
You’ll walk away with a stronger sense of what truly drives you—so every decision that follows feels more aligned, more grounded, and more you.
Inside You’ll Discover:
✅ How to define your personal non-negotiables - the values that will guide every choice you make from now on
✅ The “Circle of Influence” tool to release energy leaks and focus only on what you can shape
✅ A simple method to assess which areas of your life need your attention now to bring back balance and ease
✅ The hidden drivers behind your current choices—and how to shift into decisions that reflect what you really want
Module 02:
Untangle Your Inner World – Uncover Hidden Blocks & Unleash Your Potential
🧠 Shift the mental patterns that keep you stuck (without endless self-analysis)
You’re smart. Reflective. Self-aware. And yet... it still feels like something inside you is quietly getting in the way. This module gives you the tools to finally see what’s driving your hesitation - and how to shift it. You’ll uncover the internal stories and unconscious patterns that keep you second-guessing, and learn how to lead from a calmer, more empowered place within.
It’s not about “fixing” yourself - it’s about understanding how you operate, so you can make decisions with more ease, clarity, and forward momentum.
Inside, you’ll discover:
✅ How to map your ‘Inner Team’—the different parts of you that speak up when life feels uncertain, and how to choose who’s in the pilot seat
✅ How to spot the subtle interpretations and assumptions that shape your big and small decisions - often without you realizing it
✅ The 7 Levels of Clarity & Change - so you can pinpoint exactly where your stuckness lives, and what kind of shift will actually move you forward
Module 03:
Feel to Decide – Tap Into Your Inner Knowing
❤️ Your Emotions Are Your Compass – Tap into a new source of information and support yourself in indecision
You’ve been taught to think your way through every major choice. But some of the most aligned decisions? You don’t arrive at them through logic alone - you feel your way there.
In this module, you’ll learn how to tune into your emotions not as obstacles, but as intelligent signals that can guide you toward clarity. You’ll build real trust in yourself, even when life is uncertain - and learn how to make choices that feel steady and right, from the inside out.
Inside, you’ll discover:
✅ Why overthinking feels like control - but actually blocks aligned decisions
✅ How to read your emotions as reliable inner signals, instead of something to manage or push away
✅ How to soften the fear lens that distorts your view and build rock-solid self-trust in your ability to choose wisely.
✅ What to do when the decision isn’t yours alone - and how to stay calm and grounded anyway
Module 04:
Decide & Take Off – Move forward with Confidence & Clarity
🚀 From Clarity to Confident Action – Launch Your Next Chapter!
You’ve reconnected with what matters. You’ve cleared the mental clutter. You’ve learned to listen in — not just think it through. Now it’s time to act.
This final module is where clarity becomes movement. You’ll learn how to make grounded, values-based decisions and actually follow through - without spiraling, second-guessing, or waiting for perfect conditions. Whether you’re facing one big choice or navigating a season of change, you’ll walk away with the tools to lead yourself through it - steadily, boldly, and with full ownership of your next chapter.
Inside You’ll Discover:
✅ Fresh perspectives on decision-making that empower you to choose from a place of strength, not fear.
✅ The essential truth about accepting what your choices cost you – and why this is key to moving forward without regret.
✅ How to use the “Be-Do-Have” model to start living your next chapter now (not someday)
✅ The overlooked power of small, consistent action - and how it builds the life you actually want
✅ How to anchor every decision in your values - so your expat life feels aligned, fulfilling, and truly yours
This is the fork in the road. This is your next crossroads moment. And just like on that trail — standing still is still a choice.
You’ve made it this far for a reason. You’re done circling the same questions. And now, you have two paths:
🔴 Choice #1: Stay Where You Are
You keep standing at the fork, mapping scenarios, waiting for certainty to appear before you move.
But here’s what that actually means:
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Another month of lying awake at 3AM, replaying the same decisions in your head but hoping for a different answer
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Another half-hearted job search - or staying in a role that drains you
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Another weekend texting friends in different time zones, while putting off plans in the one you live in
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Another coffee with a friend where you say, “I don’t know… I just feel stuck”
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Still checking flights back home - not because it’s what you want, but because at least it’s a decision
🟢 Choice #2: Start Walking - With The Co-Pilot
Or, you can choose to transform everything. By joining The Co-Pilot, you'll develop your own inner clarity system you, and you begin building the inner clarity and confidence to move forward — one aligned step at a time:
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Wake up with a clearer mind - no more 3AM spirals over where to live, what job to take, or whether to stay in a relationship
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Feel more grounded in your daily life - because you’re no longer split between where you are and the futures you might choose
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Say yes (or no!) to new opportunities with confidence - and stop postponing trips, job moves, or personal investments out of uncertainty
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Experience more joy, connection, and meaning in your current expat chapter — because you’re no longer stuck in your head
So: will you keep standing at the fork, replaying the same scenarios? If you choose nothing, the cycle continues. Your frustrations compound, your potential remains untapped. But if you're ready to break free and create real change, The Co-Pilot is your path forward.
Are you ready to take the driver's seat of your expat life again?
If you're hesitating, thinking this sounds great but feeling uncertain, ask yourself:
• How much longer can I afford to stay stuck?
• What's the real cost of another day without clarity?
• Am I letting fear make my decisions, or am I choosing growth?
Don't wait - Doors close soon!
⏳ Enrollment for The Co-Pilot closes on June 30th.
🔥 This is your moment. Your life doesn't change by accident—it changes by choice.
And the best part...
What you get if you join now -
Oh wait, there is more...
When you join The Co-Pilot, this is waiting for you:
✅ 4 Deep-dive modules with concise, clear videos (no need to watch content endlessly to go back to that one tip you loved so much)
✅ Powerful coaching exercises and journal prompts, so you can work on your growth offline too
✅ Life-time access (including any future upgrades!) so you can refresh your inner clarity system for new forks in the road
✅ Quarterly Q&A calls to ask your questions, do a new exercise or get coached - for as long as The Co-Pilot runs! - so you don't need to rush now
And if you join NOW, you will ALSO get this:
✅ BONUS: 4(!) group sessions only with this cohort of The Co-Pilot, to go deeper into the content and your unique situation
✅ BONUS: a powerful exercise to see a relationship (impacting your decision) from a new POV
✅ BONUS: a live masterclass by Diana Sofia on Emotional Regulation and Subconscious Rewiring - to release what's been holding you back below the surface in taking your next step
"Amanda disarmed me in 15 minutes - and thanks to our coaching I now know I have everything inside of me to achieve my goals. I quit my job, started my own business and am now splitting my time in between Panama and Germany - exactly what I was yearning for when I still felt stuck."
- Ana Tello, expat in Germany
Hear what my coachees say about my methods & exercises
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Lisette, expat in the US
"I loved working with Amanda. She immediately made me feel comfortable and understood, which made it very easy for me to open up. Our sessions have brought me a lot of clarity in terms of my underlying beliefs, and have set in motion some very fundamental shifts in how I think, feel and behave. I know this will really help me to handle whatever else may come my way."
Andrew, expat in Europe
"I especially appreciated how you could help me look deeper and uncover what is really driving certain actions or feelings, beyond the superficial reason."
Jessica, expat in Europe
"As someone who felt "stuck" in my job and life in London after years on the move, the changes that I wanted to make felt overwhelming and unreachable. Amanda carefully balanced deep listening and practical exercises. I was able to make small but hugely impactful steps within a short space of time. I'm now moving to Paris and to find more balance there between work, friends, and creative pursuits, and I'm hugely excited about what's to come."
Hi, I'm Amanda
Life coach for high-achieving expats & global players. Former diplomat. Forever globetrotter.
With over 8 years abroad in London, Brazil, Argentina & Ecuador I know what it's like to move around, start over and mostly: to rely on yourself while life presented crossroads. And as an ambitious professional and diplomat I also had a full life and was often stuck in my head, overthinking it all.
Everything changed when I got real on my personal growth, strengthened that Inner Clarity System and made changes from there. I'm happier and calmer than ever, even when I still roam the world. My two 9-month coaching trainings solidified my personal experience into professional expertise.
Now as a life coach I've helped over 160 expats live happier, more fulfilling lives. And I can't wait to work with you too!
Bold moves my clients made after working with me
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Quit their job and started their global business
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Applied for a new role with full confidence
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Moved back home despite exciting career opportunities abroad
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Decided to start a family
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Moved to a new country even though they had no 'reason' to do it
And a whole lot more!
Some practical information.
You will get access to the first modules on June 30th and the rest will be dripped over the course of 4 weeks, so you can take your time to digest, reflect and start moving forward.
Our bonus live calls take place on:
Monday June 30th 20.00
Wednesday July 16th 20.00
Monday August 4th 20.00
Monday September 1st: 20.00
All in CEST.
You'll get the replay + opportunity to ask your questions if you can't join live!
I'll give you the toolbox
And you'll implement the right tools for you. The Co-Pilot offers you the 4 foundational pillars of the Inner Clarity System. You'll learn so much more about yourself on a deeper level, insights that you'll bring with you wherever you go. You'll identify what's truly important to you, see what's still holding you back and support yourself as you navigate your next step. By the end of it you'll have taken concrete action on the crossroads that's in front of you.
Hear what Jennifer had to say about her favorite exercise ⤵️
Here's what's possible for your in your expat life once you have a strong Inner Clarity System
✅ You’ll FEEL what it the best decision instead of needing to KNOW what’s right
✅ The next time your mom is trying to send you on a guilt trip for not being home, you can simply going on with your day instead of let it mess up your head
✅ You start your day with peace of mind instead of instant anxiety, because you’re no longer overthinking every possible scenario and can understand what's really bugging you
✅ You can trust that things will fall into place for you, even when you don’t have that next job or location secured
✅ You allow yourself to go for that job, that relationship, that country, confidently!, also when the alternative is perhaps (rationally) the safer bet.
✅ Your relationships will get deeper, stronger and less burdened (because you're now longer getting cranky when they ask about your future and you don't need endless conversations to think through your next decision)
