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Tired of lying awake at 2am, being stuck in the same decision loop you've been replaying for months now?
The Co-Pilot helps you make clear, confident decisions and take actual action on them - without waiting for certainty.
It's the ONLY room dedicated to high-functioning expats at crossroads, where you transform your constant "what ifs" to a solid new chapter.
You don't lack options - you lack settlement.
You keep postponing decisions - not because you’re lazy or ungrateful - but because every choice feels loaded. One move affects everything: work, relationships, visas, belonging, identity.
So you think harder and give it more time. And somehow… feel less clear.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll:
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Get a clear framework for moving from overthinking to action
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Feel grounded where you are, even before the next chapter is decided
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Make decisions you trust - without forcing a perfect answer
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Move forward calmly, instead of living in mental fog
From the outside, your expat life looks great.
Inside, you’re quietly stuck.
You’ve built something impressive - a solid job, friends across time zones, a life filled with adventure and opportunity. But behind the scenes, it’s a different story.
Maybe your job no longer lights you up. Maybe you’re wondering if this is still the right country for you, or where to go next when your visa expires. Or maybe it’s harder to name than that - just a quiet sense that something isn’t settled anymore.
So you lie awake at night, replaying the same “what ifs”: where to live, what to do next, whether to stay, go, pivot, wait. Because as an expat, you know one move ripples into everything - your relationship, your finances, your community, your future. One wrong turn could change it all, and suddenly every option feels heavy.
So you overthink. You map scenarios. You wait for certainty that never comes.
And all the while, the clock keeps ticking - along with your 3AM thoughts. You put pressure on yourself to figure it out, then feel guilty for not enjoying your “amazing” expat life.
You distract yourself with busywork, scrolling, long runs, or conversations that go in circles. You read the books, ask for advice, make the pro-con lists… but still feel foggy.
You’re not lazy or ungrateful. You’re just tired.
Tired of carrying the mental weight of a life that’s always in motion.
Tired of not feeling fully present - because part of you is already living in the next possible future.
Tired of holding three different versions of your life in your head, while your current one quietly waits underneath.
You’re done being stuck in expat limbo. You want clarity. You want peace. And more than anything - you want to actually be in the life you worked so hard to create, instead of constantly thinking your way out of it.
The quiet cost of expat indecision - when you’re living abroad but not really living.
When your expat life looks good from the outside, it’s easy to minimize what you’re feeling.
You tell yourself to just be grateful, that nothing is really wrong or that you'll figure it out later.
But staying in this in-between space comes at a cost: not all at once, but slowly and quietly. It shows up in the small, everyday moments.
Right now you're caught in an exhausting cycle of:
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Lying awake, replaying the same career, location & relationship scenarios - again
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Trying to make a decision by creating pros and cons lists - that lead to nowhere
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Feeling more irritated when your partner or family brings up “the future”
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Talking your options over with friends, yet again, always ending in the same loop
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Avoiding commitments as simple as a trip next summer, buying Christmas decorations or or a 6-month gym membership offer - because you don't know if you'll still be here next year
A cycle that is quietly impacting how you are experiencing your expat life. You’re not fully here, because part of you is already trying to anticipate a future you haven’t chosen yet.
Your biggest asset is holding you back in your expat crossroads
If you’re like most of my clients, you’ve always relied on your mind to get ahead.
Thinking things through got you here. Being strategic, responsible, and capable helped you build a life abroad.
Living a good life and being smart about your future is important to you. So you weigh options carefully. Think it through. You want to be sure before you act - especially when the stakes are high. And honestly? That strategy has worked well for you. Until now.
Here’s what most high-functioning expats don’t realize until much later: the crossroads you’re at right now can’t be solved with logic alone. You can't think your way to clarity.
Because these decisions - about where to live, what work to pursue, who to build a life with - aren’t just intellectual. They’re emotional, layered, and deeply personal. And trying to “figure it out” in your head - while waiting to be sure before you act - is exactly what’s keeping you stuck.
You’re using only half your clarity system: the part that demands certainty before it moves. Which means… you stay right where you are. Spinning in questions. Waiting for clarity to arrive - instead of learning how to access it.
Imagine you're on a challenging hike...
You’ve been hiking for hours. You hit a fork in the path - no map, no signal, and daylight fading.
Do you freeze there, analyzing every possible outcome? Or do you choose a direction, trust your instincts, and start walking - knowing you can course-correct along the way?
This is where so many expats get stuck. Not because they’re lost - but because they’re waiting for a perfect map before they move. Overthinking every step, afraid to make the “wrong” choice.
But clarity doesn’t come from standing still. It comes from moving with intention.
This is where you stop circling - and start moving forward
Here’s the truth: the more you think about it, the more stuck you feel.
Not because you lack intelligence or discipline - but because at this stage of expat life, self-leadership requires more than rationality alone.
Truly self-led expats don’t outsource their decisions to endless thinking. They know how to listen to themselves - not just logically, but internally.
Because clarity doesn’t come from analysis alone. It comes from alignment and from movement, just like on that trail.
However, most decision-making tools keep you in your head. They teach you to list, compare, calculate. To map scenarios and predict outcomes. To ask everyone else what they would do.
But your life isn't a spreadsheet. And the decisions you’re facing - about where to live, what to build, who you’re becoming - deserve more than mental gymnastics.
What actually helps is being able to access your own inner clarity system.
To tune into what feels steady, grounded, and right - and to take action from there, even while the future is still unfolding.
This isn’t about finding the perfect answer - especially in expat life, where certainty is rare.
It’s about becoming the kind of person who knows how to move forward with confidence, even when not everything is clear yet.
You may still worry: "What if I make the wrong choice?
That makes sense. When one decision ripples into your career, your relationship, your future - it feels like there’s a right answer, and you just haven’t found it yet.
But here's the reframe: There are no wrong choices, only experiences that guide you. Every decision is a learning opportunity, not a one-way ticket to a fixed destination.
Inside The Co-Pilot, I’ll show you how to access your Inner Clarity System to make decisions that feel as natural as breathing – no matter how layered your expat life becomes.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll build a 4-part Inner Clarity System…
The Co-Pilot is a transformational program for high-achieving expats who look successful on the outside - but feel quietly stuck on the inside.
Your career or location choice used to feel solid. Now it feels… uncertain.
And so begins the overload:
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Is this is still the right country?
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Does my work still fit who I'm becoming?
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How do I move forward without having full certainty?
If that sounds familiar, this is where you stop spiraling in overthinking and start leading yourself with clarity and intention.
You don’t need another late-night thinking loop or well-meaning advice from home.
You need support and a decision-making system that helps you tune in - so your next steps feel grounded, true to you, and right for this season of your global life.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll learn a 4-part Inner Clarity System that gives you exactly that: a practical, repeatable way to find clarity from within, take calm, confident action, and lead your life with direction - even when the future is still unfolding.
You don’t have to figure this out alone
One of the reasons expat decision-making feels so heavy is that you’re often carrying it by yourself.
You’re the one holding the questions, the trade-offs, and the uncertainty - while the rest of your life keeps moving.
Advice from friends or family back home often misses the mark, simply because they’re not living your reality. And trying to sort everything out on your own usually leads to more thinking, not more clarity.
That’s why The Co-Pilot isn’t just a set of videos. It comes with additional, high-touch live support for 4 months - inside a setting where you are really being seen.
Here's what you'll get inside The Co-Pilot
A clear, supportive structure to help you move forward - without rushing or forcing decisions.
✅ A 4-part Inner Clarity System
A step-by-step framework that helps you cut through mental noise and make decisions you actually trust. You’ll learn how to combine logic with inner clarity, and trust with action, so you can move forward even when not everything is decided yet.
Includes lifetime access to all core content and future updates.
✅ Perspective-shifting coaching tools
Practical exercises that help you untangle overthinking, see your situation more clearly, and reconnect with what feels right - without another 2AM spiral.
✅ Live support & real-time guidance (4 months)
You’re not doing this alone. You’ll receive live group coaching and Q&A calls, plus access to a private WhatsApp group for ongoing support, reflection, and questions as they come up.
✅ A space designed for expats
Everything inside The Co-Pilot is built for people navigating international careers, relationships, and big life moves - so you don’t have to explain your context or justify your questions.
✅ Ongoing quarterly group calls (optional)
After the program, you’re invited to join a quarterly group call whenever you’re navigating a new crossroads - so you don’t have to start from scratch each time. Join when it’s relevant, skip when it’s not.
Don't just take my word for it - see what other high-functioning expats have said about the work we do inside The Co-Pilot
"I've dabbled in working with various types of self-help practitioners over many years and life events. I often was left feeling a bit crestfallen, hungry for greater external accountability and a directness in communication to help me explore and evolve.
Working with Amanda has cracked that wide open. I feel equally compassionately supported and respectfully challenged in a combination I have long desired."
Jill D.
What we'll do inside The Co-Pilot
Module 01:
Unlock Unshakeable Clarity – Know What Truly Matters in Your Expat Life
Stop reacting. Start deciding from your core.
When everything feels possible, it’s hard to know what actually matters. In this module, you get clear on your personal non-negotiables - so your decisions stop being reactive and start feeling grounded.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Identify the values that should guide your next chapter
✅ Focus your energy on what you can actually influence
✅ Assess which areas of your life need your attention now to bring back balance and ease
✅ Find the hidden drivers behind your current choices - and how to shift into decisions that reflect what you really want
Outcome: decisions that feel anchored instead of scattered.
Module 02:
Feel to Decide – Tap Into Your Inner Knowing
Use emotions as information - not obstacles - and know how to support yourself in moments of doubt.
Some decisions can’t be solved by thinking harder. In this module, you learn how to use emotions as a reliable source of guidance, so you can trust yourself even when certainty isn’t available.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Read emotional signals without getting overwhelmed
✅ Tell the difference between fear and intuition
✅ Stay grounded when decisions affect others too
Outcome: stronger self-trust and calmer decision-making.
Module 03:
Untangle Your Inner World – Uncover Hidden Blocks & Unleash Your Potential
Understand what's really holding you back
Untangle the inner patterns that keep you stuck.
You’re self-aware - and still stuck. This module helps you see why. You’ll uncover the hidden beliefs, inner voices, and assumptions that quietly influence your decisions - and learn how to lead from a calmer place inside.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Recognize the internal patterns driving hesitation
✅ Separate real obstacles from mental ones
✅ Stop second-guessing yourself at the same decision points
Outcome: less internal friction; more ease, understanding and clarity.
Module 04:
Decide & Take Off – Move forward with Confidence & Clarity
From clarity to confident action - launch your next chapter!
Clarity only matters if it leads to movement. This final module helps you make decisions you actually follow through on, and take steady action without spiraling or waiting for perfect conditions. This is where you become the next level version of you, ready for a next chapter.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Decide from strength, not fear
✅ Accept the cost of choices without regret
✅ Build momentum and start living your next chapter now, not some day
✅ How to anchor every decision in your values - so your expat life feels aligned, fulfilling, and truly yours
Outcome: forward movement you can sustain, new-found confidence, and excitement for what you're deciding.
Here is the fork in the road.
You’re at a real crossroads.
And just like on a trail, standing still is also a choice.
From here, there are two paths.
🔴 Stay where you are
You keep circling the same questions, waiting for certainty before you move.
That looks like:
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revisiting the same decisions at 2AM
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staying in roles or places that no longer fit
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postponing plans because “you’re not sure yet”
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telling yourself you’ll decide later
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still checking rentals back home - not because it’s what you want, but because at least it’s a decision
Nothing gets worse overnight - but nothing really changes either. Likely impacting your relationships, confidence, peace of mind and joy over time.
🟢 Start walking - with The Co-Pilot
You don’t force a big leap: you start moving with support.
That looks like:
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a quieter mind and finally restful sleep at night
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feeling more grounded & joyful in your day-to-day life
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making decisions you trust yourself to follow through on
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being present where you are, while moving toward what’s next
One aligned step at a time, helping you to invest in plans, relationships, countries, careers and ideas again. Making your global life really feel like you're truly living it.
You can stay at the fork and keep thinking it through.
Or you can choose support and start moving forward.
The Co-Pilot is here for the second option.
Are you ready to take the driver's seat of your expat life again?
You don’t need to be 100% certain to join.
Most people inside The Co-Pilot didn’t feel “ready” - they just knew staying stuck wasn’t working anymore. This is a space to get clarity while you move, not before.
And the best part...
Not making this decision alone - but with your partner?
I've got a bonus for you! Decision Lab for Two (by Wiebke Anton) is an interactive masterclass for globally mobile couples facing high-stakes decisions around future, career, and location. Instead of searching for the “right” outcome, couples learn how to make decisions in ways that minimize long-term relational damage.
A repeatable process that helps partners move away from forced compromise toward choices that are explicit, shared, and emotionally livable. The focus is on decision integrity - and on decisions neither partner has to recover from later. Join alone or with your partner!
You can join the workshop live and you'll also get a recording inside the portal, so you can revisit whenever you want to.
Wiebke Anton, Relationship Coach for Expats
Bold moves my clients made
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Quit their job and started their global business
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Applied for a new role with full confidence
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Moved back home despite exciting career opportunities abroad
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Decided to start a family
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Moved to a new country even though they had no 'reason' to do it
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Decided to stay, but this time with full conviction and calmness
Rasha A., expat in Canada
"Working with Amanda sharpened my focus, increased my confidence, and helped me make intentional choices about the life I want to build. What impressed me most was the level of insight and support that challenged me to grow in new ways. Now, I feel more grounded, energized, and equipped to thrive in both my professional and personal life abroad."
Soraya, expat in Europe
"I feel like only expats can truly understand other expats. Being understood is very valuable. Amanda understands AND guides you. If you’re feeling stuck, confused, or alone in your expat life, this program can really help."
Jessica, expat in Europe
"As someone who felt "stuck" in my job and life in London after years on the move, the changes that I wanted to make felt overwhelming and unreachable. Amanda carefully balanced deep listening and practical exercises. I was able to make small but hugely impactful steps within a short space of time. I'm now moving to Paris and to find more balance there between work, friends, and creative pursuits, and I'm hugely excited about what's to come."
Hi, I'm Amanda
Life coach for high-functioning expats & global players. Former diplomat.
I’ve lived and worked abroad for over eight years, including in London, Brazil, Argentina, and Ecuador. I know what it’s like to build a successful life abroad - and still feel stuck at key crossroads, relying on your mind to figure everything out.
That was my experience too. Capable, driven, and often overthinking my next move.
What changed wasn’t my circumstances, but how I learned to lead myself through decisions. By strengthening my inner clarity, I stopped waiting for certainty and started making grounded, aligned choices.
Today, I combine that experience with two in-depth coaching trainings and my work with over 200 expats worldwide, helping them move forward with clarity, confidence, and calm - even when the future isn’t fully clear.
If you’re at a crossroads in your expat life: I've got you.
Hear what Jennifer loved inside The Co-Pilot
"Amanda disarmed me in 15 minutes - and thanks to our coaching I now know I have everything inside of me to achieve my goals. I quit my job, started my own business and am now splitting my time in between Panama and Germany - exactly what I was yearning for when I still felt stuck."
- Ana Tello, expat in Germany
