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This is the replay of the masterclass I hosted late June. Realize you want more? Keep scrolling...
Because I've just started working together with 14 expats and I wouldn't want you to miss out - especially as we're about to start a 5-day challenge that will kickstart you into action & clarity!
Summer is the best time - without deadlines and Christmas holidays - to make space for your crossroads and finally start to tackle it. I'm re-opening doors till Tuesday, so that you can make our 5-day momentum challenge!
Finally. A way out of the expat decision loop - and into your next chapter.
Tired of lying awake at 2am, being stuck in the same decision loop you've been replaying for months now?
You're figuring out what to do next - thinking about the visa, the job, the country, the relationship - or all of them at once. And somehow, the more you think, the less clear it gets.
Because as an expat, this isn't just one decision. Career impacts location. Location impacts relationships. Relationships impact identity. Everything is connected.
You're tired of going around in circles. You want to sleep again. Make a decision and actually feel okay with it. Stop keeping your life in temporary mode. And finally build a next chapter that reflects who you are now - not who you were when you first moved abroad.
"As someone who felt "stuck" in my job and life in London after years on the move, the changes that I wanted to make felt overwhelming and unreachable. Thanks to Amanda, I'm now moving to Paris - and hugely excited about what's to come"
- Jess W.
Your life has become tangled, and you no longer trust yourself to know which thread to pull.
Work, location, relationship, family, visa - everything is connected. You can't look at one thing without the others showing up. So you go back and forth. You replay the same questions. You make the pros and cons list - and halfway through, you realize you've made it before.
You research your options but the 'how' question blocks you right away. You open LinkedIn listings in cities you're not sure you want to move to - then close the tab. You avoid signing the lease, buying furniture, investing in friendships & dating - because what's the point if you might leave?
So instead you sign up for a half marathon. You binge another Netflix series. You book a trip.
Anything to get out of your own head for a while. But the questions are always there when you get back. And somehow, two years already passed.
Your biggest asset is holding you back in your expat crossroads
Your brain got you here. The strategic thinking, the careful planning, the ability to weigh every option - that's how you built a life abroad that most people only dream about.
But the crossroads you're at now can't be solved by thinking harder. These decisions - about where to live, who to build a life with, what work actually fits who you're becoming - aren't just logical. They're emotional, layered, and deeply personal.
And the stakes feel higher than they used to. You're not 25 anymore. There's more on the line - career timing, relationships, maybe family. So you want to be sure before you act. Which means you think more. Research more. Wait more.
But the more you rely on logic alone, the more questions your brain generates instead of answers. Because right now you're only using half your clarity system - the part that demands certainty before it moves.
The other half? That's what we work on inside The Co-Pilot.
Imagine you're on a challenging hike...
You’ve been hiking for hours. You hit a fork in the path - no map, no signal, and daylight fading.
Do you freeze there, analyzing every possible outcome? Or do you choose a direction, trust your instincts, and start walking - knowing you can course-correct along the way?
This is where so many expats get stuck. Not because they’re lost - but because they’re waiting for a perfect map before they move. Overthinking every step, afraid to make the “wrong” choice.
But clarity doesn’t come from standing still. It comes from moving with intention.
This is where you stop circling - and start moving forward
Imagine waking up and not immediately reaching for the same questions. Sleeping through the night. Making a decision - and actually feeling okay with it, your mind is peacefully quiet.
That's what changes when you stop trying to think your way to clarity and start accessing your full Inner Clarity System: the part that combines logic with what your gut has been quietly telling you all along, infused with embodied action that excites you.
Because the goal isn't just to solve this one decision. It's to become the truly self-led expat who knows how to navigate personal crossroads - anywhere in the world, at any stage of life.
Someone who moves from "I need to be sure first" to "I trust myself to figure it out as I go."
You already have the answers inside you. You just need a way to hear them again.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll build a 4-part Inner Clarity System…
The Co-Pilot is a transformational program for high-achieving expats who look successful on the outside - but feel quietly stuck on the inside.
Your career or location choice used to feel solid. Now it feels… uncertain.
And so begins the overload:
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Is this is still the right country?
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Does my work still fit who I'm becoming?
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How do I move forward without having full certainty?
If that sounds familiar, this is where you stop spiraling in overthinking and start leading yourself with clarity and intention.
You don’t need another late-night thinking loop or well-meaning advice from home.
You need support and a decision-making system that helps you tune in - so your next steps feel grounded, true to you, and right for this season of your global life.
Inside The Co-Pilot, you’ll learn a 4-part Inner Clarity System that gives you exactly that: a practical, repeatable way to find clarity from within, take calm, confident action, and lead your life with direction - even when the future is still unfolding.
You don’t have to figure this out alone
One of the reasons expat decision-making feels so heavy is that you’re often carrying it by yourself.
You’re the one holding the questions, the trade-offs, and the uncertainty - while the rest of your life keeps moving.
Advice from friends or family back home often misses the mark, simply because they’re not living your reality abroa. And trying to sort everything out on your own usually leads to more thinking, not more clarity.
That’s why The Co-Pilot isn’t just a set of videos. It comes with additional, high-touch live support for 4 months - inside a setting where you are really being seen.
Here's what you'll get inside The Co-Pilot
A clear, supportive structure to help you move forward - without rushing or forcing decisions.
✅ A 4-part Inner Clarity System
The framework: 4 modules, immediate & lifetime access. Short video lessons, powerful exercises, reflection prompts. Not hours of passive watching. Practical tools that move you from insight into actual action. One participant told me module one alone saved her months of mental spiraling.
Includes lifetime access to all core content and future updates.
✅ Two live calls every month for 4 months
One thematic call where we go deep on what the group needs most right now (overcoming fear, embodying a new identity, getting unstuck from a specific pattern), and one hot seat coaching call where I coach you directly on your situation, live. Real coaching, on the real thing you're carrying. Replays always available.
✅ The WhatsApp community for 4 months
A small, active group of globally-minded people who are in it too. Not 100 messages a day, but active enough to keep momentum - and with meaningful messages. Wins, questions, real talk. People who actually understand why the decision about the job automatically becomes a decision about the relationship, the city, the future. The ones back home don't get it - these people do.
✅ And me - fully in your corner for four months.
I know everyone inside the group. There's no hiding, but also no pressure. I'll notice if you've gone quiet and I'll reach out. I'll coach you in the group when something you share needs more than a voice note. I'm not here to give you answers. I'm here to help you find yours - faster, and with a lot less noise in between.
Don't just take my word for it - see what other high-functioning expats have said about the work we do inside The Co-Pilot
"I've dabbled in working with various types of self-help practitioners over many years and life events. I often was left feeling a bit crestfallen, hungry for greater external accountability and a directness in communication to help me explore and evolve.
Working with Amanda has cracked that wide open. I feel equally compassionately supported and respectfully challenged in a combination I have long desired."
Jill D.
What we'll do inside The Co-Pilot
Module 01:
Unlock Unshakeable Clarity – Know What Truly Matters in Your Expat Life
Stop reacting. Start deciding from your core.
When everything feels possible, it’s hard to know what actually matters. In this module, you get clear on your personal non-negotiables - so your decisions stop being reactive and start feeling grounded.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Identify the values that should guide your next chapter
✅ Focus your energy on what you can actually influence
✅ Assess which areas of your life need your attention now to bring back balance and ease
✅ Find the hidden drivers behind your current choices - and how to shift into decisions that reflect what you really want
Outcome: decisions that feel anchored instead of scattered.
Module 02:
Feel to Decide – Tap Into Your Inner Knowing
Use emotions as information - not obstacles - and know how to support yourself in moments of doubt.
Some decisions can’t be solved by thinking harder. In this module, you learn how to use emotions as a reliable source of guidance, so you can trust yourself even when certainty isn’t available.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Read emotional signals without getting overwhelmed
✅ Tell the difference between fear and intuition
✅ Stay grounded when decisions affect others too
Outcome: stronger self-trust and calmer decision-making.
Module 03:
Untangle Your Inner World – Uncover Hidden Blocks & Unleash Your Potential
Untangle the inner patterns that keep you stuck.
You’re self-aware - and still stuck. This module helps you see why. You’ll uncover the hidden beliefs, inner voices, and assumptions that quietly influence your decisions - and learn how to lead from a calmer place inside.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Recognize the internal patterns driving hesitation
✅ Separate real obstacles from mental ones
✅ Stop second-guessing yourself at the same decision points
Outcome: less internal friction; more ease, understanding and clarity.
Module 04:
Decide & Take Off – Move forward with Confidence & Clarity
From clarity to confident action - launch your next chapter!
Clarity only matters if it leads to movement. This final module helps you make decisions you actually follow through on, and take steady action without spiraling or waiting for perfect conditions. This is where you become the next level version of you, ready for a next chapter.
You’ll learn how to:
✅ Decide from strength, not fear
✅ Accept the cost of choices without regret
✅ Build momentum and start living your next chapter now, not some day
✅ How to anchor every decision in your values - so your expat life feels aligned, fulfilling, and truly yours
Outcome: forward movement you can sustain, new-found confidence, and excitement for what you're deciding.
Here is the fork in the road.
You’re at a real crossroads.
And just like on a trail, standing still is also a choice.
From here, there are two paths.
🔴 Stay where you are
You keep circling the same questions, waiting for certainty before you move.
That looks like:
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revisiting the same decisions at 2AM
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staying in roles or places that no longer fit
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postponing plans because “you’re not sure yet”
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telling yourself you’ll decide later
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still checking rentals back home - not because it’s what you want, but because at least it’s a decision
Nothing gets worse overnight - but nothing really changes either. Likely impacting your relationships, confidence, peace of mind and joy over time.
🟢 Start walking - with The Co-Pilot
You don’t force a big leap: you start moving with support.
That looks like:
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a quieter mind and finally restful sleep at night
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feeling more grounded & joyful in your day-to-day life
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making decisions you trust yourself to follow through on
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being present where you are, while moving toward what’s next
One aligned step at a time, helping you to invest in plans, relationships, countries, careers and ideas again. Making your global life really feel like you're truly living it.
You can stay at the fork and keep thinking it through.
Or you can choose support and start moving forward.
The Co-Pilot is here for the second option.
Are you ready to take the driver's seat of your expat life again?
You don’t need to be 100% certain to join.
Most people inside The Co-Pilot didn’t feel “ready” - they just knew staying stuck wasn’t working anymore. This is a space to get clarity while you move, not before.
And the best part...
But I have more for you...
Because The Co-Pilot comes with bonuses to ensure your way forward becomes a real success!
All yours when you join now.
BONUS 1 - A TWO-PART WORKSHOP
Not making this decision alone - but with your partner?
Then you'l want this workshop. Decision Lab for Two (by Wiebke Anton) is an interactive masterclass for globally mobile couples facing high-stakes decisions around future, career, and location. Instead of searching for the “right” outcome, couples learn how to make decisions in ways that minimize long-term relational damage.
A repeatable process that helps partners move away from forced compromise toward choices that are explicit, shared, and emotionally livable. The focus is on decision integrity - and on decisions neither partner has to recover from later. Join alone or with your partner!
Value of €349 - yours free when you join The Co-Pilot.
Wiebke Anton, Relationship Coach for Expats
BONUS 2 - A CAREER Q&A
Is a career decision part of your crossroads?
Expat career coach Keki Mwaba is returning to The Co-Pilot with a valuable Q&A session! Keki has helped hundreds of internationals find new jobs: in their current country, a new country or back home again. And she knows exactly what common mistake you might be making, what you could tweak on your CV or how to use your LinkedIn network to land your next role.
In this hour-long session you can ask her anything so that you can really use it for your personal situation. Replay available if you can't make it + an option to submit your questions beforehand.
Value of €149, yours for free when you join The Co-Pilot.
Keki Mwaba, Expat Career Coach
Bold moves my clients made
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Quit their job and started their global business
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Applied for a new role with full confidence
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Moved back home despite exciting career opportunities abroad
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Decided to start a family
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Moved to a new country even though they had no 'reason' to do it
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Decided to stay, but this time with full conviction and calmness
Rasha A., expat in Canada
"Working with Amanda sharpened my focus, increased my confidence, and helped me make intentional choices about the life I want to build. What impressed me most was the level of insight and support that challenged me to grow in new ways. Now, I feel more grounded, energized, and equipped to thrive in both my professional and personal life abroad."
Soraya, expat in Europe
"I feel like only expats can truly understand other expats. Being understood is very valuable. Amanda understands AND guides you. If you’re feeling stuck, confused, or alone in your expat life, this program can really help."
Jessica, expat in Europe
"As someone who felt "stuck" in my job and life in London after years on the move, the changes that I wanted to make felt overwhelming and unreachable. Amanda carefully balanced deep listening and practical exercises. I was able to make small but hugely impactful steps within a short space of time. I'm now moving to Paris to find more balance there between work, friends, and creative pursuits, and I'm hugely excited about what's to come."
Hi, I'm Amanda
Life coach for high-functioning expats & global players. Former diplomat.
I’ve lived and worked abroad for over eight years, including in London, Brazil, Argentina, and Ecuador. I know what it’s like to build a successful life abroad - and still feel stuck at key crossroads, relying on your mind to figure everything out.
That was my experience too. Capable, driven, and often overthinking my next move.
What changed wasn’t my circumstances, but how I learned to lead myself through decisions. By strengthening my inner clarity, I stopped waiting for certainty and started making grounded, aligned choices, collapsing timelines as I started next chapters.
Today, I combine that experience with two in-depth coaching trainings and my work with over 240 expats worldwide, helping them move forward with clarity, confidence, and calm - even when the future isn’t fully clear.
If you’re at a crossroads in your expat life: I've got you.
Hear what Laura loved inside The Co-Pilot
"Amanda disarmed me in 15 minutes - and thanks to our coaching I now know I have everything inside of me to achieve my goals. I quit my job, started my own business and am now splitting my time in between Panama and Germany - exactly what I was yearning for when I still felt stuck."
- Ana Tello, expat in Germany
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